Starting To Get Personal- Tattoos, The Harsh Way

I recently gave myself a tattoo. Stupid right? Well, the problem is, my boyfriend hates it. Yet, I love it. Its the Japanese symbols for inner strength. I think it's so pretty, but my boyfriend wanted to leave me for it. Why? Shouldn't he love me for me? He say's it's not about the looks, but it seems like it is. To me, guys are confusing. Ive been trying to get off this stupid tattoo for so long ! And it's hurting me ! Can't I just be myself and do what I want to my body? Want any ideas for tattoos? Or info on how to tattoo yourself? Just comment. It's an easy thing if you're impatient like me. Make sure you're allowed to do it though !